Have you ever wondered what kind of self-image you have? Figuring it out isn’t as difficult as you might think. The answer lies in taking an honest look at the various aspects of your life.
Look at the results you are currently getting:
- Your relationships
- Your income
- The position you hold at work
- The type of business you operate
- Your personal appearance
These are all results—outer expressions of the inner image you hold in your mind. They are created by your actions and opinions. The most important thing to remember is this: you can always change your self-image.
And as you alter this inner image, everything outside begins to change. Your relationships, your income, your appearance, and even your work or business will start to transform. Everything is connected.
Your Self-Image Dictates Your Results
It’s a simple but powerful equation:
- A person with a positive self-image gets positive results.
- A person with a negative self-image gets negative results.
So, how do you start to change your results? It begins by changing your attitude and opinions about how you want to live your life, and then taking the first step to live it.
The Path to a New You
This is easy to say, but sometimes not easy to do. The environment you grew up in, or are currently surrounded by, often dictates how you think you should look or act. These thoughts dictate your mindset, and your mindset dictates your actions.
But here’s the great news: you can change your self-image at any time and at any age the moment you make a firm decision that it must change.
How can you do it? Through fantasy and imagination.
You have the power to turn your fantasies into facts. Take time for yourself to think deeply about how you want to look and act. Visualize it clearly, and then take action to make it real.

Start From the Inside Out
One of the greatest errors a person can make is attempting to change their outer circumstances without first changing their inner self-image. Since your outer world is a mirror of your inner world, the change must start from within.
You can build a winner’s self-image by changing your attitude towards yourself. Make a decision that from NOW on, you will do everything to be SUCCESSFUL by taking RESPONSIBILITY—starting with your thoughts about who you are and what you are capable of.
Why is this inner work so crucial? Because if you only change your outside self-image first, it would be like expecting a mirror to show a different picture without changing the person standing in front of it.
Your Mind is Your Masterpower
The mind is the masterpower that moulds and makes our choices.
We think in images. Every beautiful image you hold in your mind attracts beautiful circumstances and situations. Think about starting a new business—it often begins with a new outfit and a new energy. People are drawn to something new and vibrant.
When you start to change, you will find obstacles. But remember, these obstacles are often just an illusion. You are capable of doing anything you decide to do.
With a positive attitude, you can achieve the results you want. By changing your attitude towards yourself and your opinions about who you are, what you do, and how you want to look, you can begin the journey.
Create a big, vivid picture of how you want your life to look. Then, add the practical steps for how you are going to get there.
Everything you need to do starts with one simple question to yourself:
“Am I willing to?”